If you’re feeling like everyone has an easier or better or richer life than you, you’re not alone. Seems like everyone is talking about all the incredible things they are magically manifesting out of thin air…Actually, you’re only half right.

If you truly want to effortlessly manifest everything on your wish list you’ll need to do these 5 things:

1. Get crystal clear on how you want to Feel – The things we want to manifest mean nothing if they don’t make us Feel they way we expect to feel once we have them, or worse, they make us feel bad. The real Ah-Ha moment is, the thing you want isn’t even what you really want, you really want the Feeling. That’s why when you finally get the thing, go to the party, have the adventure, you feel disappointed…because it was never about the thing.

When you think or look at a picture of what you want to manifest how do you feel – and don’t say good or happy – dig deep, look more to who it makes you feel that you are, how will it shift your idea of yourself? Does it make you feel worthy, free, valued, important, smart, loved

Here’s where it gets tricky, you might hide the real reasons from yourself because it makes you feel ‘wrong’ or ‘less than’…things like – being more like them so I finally measure up and stop disappointing people around me, feeling joyful so people will like me because I think I’m unlikable, I’ll get to be someone else because I’m sick and tired of being me.

Don’t hide from any way you are feeling – you can’t hide from Energy, but what you can do is sabotage your manifestation. Just be honest with how you would like this thing to make you feel, there is nothing bad or wrong that you can think or say when doing this.

2. Shift your idea of what effortless is – If you’re thinking effortless is sitting on the couch doom scrolling social media while watching your favorite YouTube channel it’s time to peek behind the curtain of everyone whose ever manifested anything – they do the Work! Except, it doesn’t feel like work, it feels like following their intuition, taking action on opportunities, making space for it physically, mentally and emotionally, recognizing when they’re self-sabotaging and correcting their actions, focusing on the Feeling and letting go of control, staying in the moment and open to what shows up, being ready, willing, able and joyful to take the steps needed as they come – that’s effortless and if you’re feeling like this is all too much that’s ok, maybe you’re not ready yet. There’s nothing wrong with that, everyone is on their own path.

3. Go outside and do some Grounding – Yes manifesting is about energy, but if you want to see tangible results you had better make friends with Mother Earth. The best way to do this is to turn off your electronics, leave them in the house, and Go Outside!

Go barefoot on the lawn and really feel every sensation your feet are experiencing, name them out loud, what is the temperature, hard, soft, squishy, tickly, prickly. If it’s too cold go hug a tree in your parka and mittens, put your cheek against the bark and do the same thing. If you really can’t handle the cold sit with your house plant and touch the dirt with your fingers, you can even do this at your nearest garden center. After you name all you’re feeling imagine going into the grass, tree, plant and actually experiencing what they experience, follow along their bloodstream and go into the roots, take in all that you are feeling and know while you are experiencing them they are experiencing you…you are connecting on an energetic level and you are sub-consciously learning how to make something from nothing by doing this.

4. Get quiet and connect with and Trust your Intuition, Your Inner Knowing – The fastest, easiest way to connect with your intuition is to stop talking, stop paying attention to your head and notice how your body feels. Do it now – stand up and ask out loud, “Is this for my best and highest good,” now put your attention on your body and turn to your left…what are the parts of your body feeling …does it feel lighter somewhere, heavier, cold, warm, is there a tightness anywhere, did you sigh or yawn, did you adjust your stance, stand taller, hunch a little more, lean a little toward or away?

You are always, continually, effortlessly connected to your intuition, you just have to pay closer attention. All of the information you just received will tell you about what is to the left of you and what you will experience there.

The feelings of openness, lightness, warmth, expansion, relief, release, a yawn or sigh, opening or relaxing of your heart or belly are all signs that this direction supports your highest good at this time. It may take a bit of practice to get quiet enough to notice all the signs, but don’t give up, every time you do this your sub-conscious will help you get even quieter.

5. Adjust your Actions to Match your Manifestation Goal – If you’ve followed all of the above steps and it seems like you’re getting further away from what you want take a look at what your actions are saying, Especially how you’re using your money, which is powerful energy.

Examples

– If you’re manifesting a car and you keep putting other things in the garage taking up the space you are saying ‘There’s no room in my life for a car right now’

– If you’re manifesting a vacation and you keep using your Money to dine out or for retail purchases or streaming services, etc. you are saying ‘I value all these things above a vacation’

Money is one of the most necessary and valued items in our culture today… money is how we feed ourselves, clothe ourselves, house ourselves, keep ourselves safe, entertain ourselves, experience ourselves…

THIS is why Money holds such powerful magic

Because we place such a high value on money the Universe is watching where we direct our money more than anything else we can feel, say or do.

Be mindful of how you’re connecting your Manifestation goal with your money

Sometimes that can mean preparing by letting go of what is unnecessary so you can keep more of your money, sometimes it can mean taking action on an opportunity to make more money, sometimes it can mean making a purchase, sometimes it can mean taking advice about money when it shows up…this is where you need to pause and find clarity through intuition to know your highest and best choice.

“We must all face the choice between what is right and what is easy” Albus Dumbledor

I love this quote because for me it says all of the thousands of little choices I make throughout the day matter – each time I open the fridge, buy a coffee, leave a dish in the sink, say no to an invitation, drive home from the beach without washing the salt off the car I’m telling the universe what I value…and that shows me exactly what I’ll be manifesting.

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Cat Parah offers Intuitive Happiness Coaching. When you’re ready to Awaken Your Intuitive Happiness contact Cat at cat.parah@gmail.com.

The information, sessions and workshops I offer are at no time meant to replace medical advice. Although I am certified in many complimentary therapies, I am not a licensed medical physician. If you are experiencing physical, mental, emotional issues please seek advice from a licensed physician.